I Feel Alone In This Marriage: A Letter To My Husband Who Stopped Loving Me. This is a letter from the heart of a wife who feels her husband no longer loves her. The purpose of this letter may be to open her husband’s eyes and he wants to save his household. This is a letter that touches the hearts of millions of people especially husbands who no longer love their wives.
A letter expressing the heart of a wife who after a long walk with her husband but now feels she is no longer loved by her husband. Which heart does not break when you know your husband no longer loves you?
A Letter To My Husband Who Stopped Loving Me
Dear Husband,
I am writing this letter to express what I am feeling for the past few days. Doesn’t matter how much I thought to speak up, I couldn’t gather enough courage to say it in person. I feel my tears and my emotions might choke me if I do it in person.
I could never forget the excitement I saw in your eyes when I first met you. You were not only handsome but kind, intelligent, and ambitious too. It was amazing how from them strangers we got so close that we decided to get married.
Our life was exciting initially – we enjoyed exotic holidays, night outs with friends. But then life moved fast and we were a married couple with two kids.
Then with time, everything changed.
– I started yearning for your time
– Our conversations turned into one-way
– Discussions turned into fights,
– Things that we used to do for each other started feeling like a burden
– We started giving up on each otherAnd one fine day, I understood a heartbreaking truth that I wasn’t your priority anymore.
At night we lie side by side, never hugging, never speaking. I don’t cry myself to sleep anymore, my tears don’t get me anywhere, no one can hear them.
Since the birth of our second child, I am yearning to be held, to be brought a cup of tea in the morning, to be told I am appreciated, to enjoy life’s simple adventures with the man I am meant to share my life and my world with.
I miss feeling loved. Feeling special. Feeling like a soul mate.
It is heartbreaking to see how you are irritated at every attempt to spend our free time as a couple.
We both work in a full-time job that pays us equally. Then why do you treat me as intellectually inferior? Has it ever occurred to you, that the moment you walk through the door of our house, your work is over… But, for me, it still continues?
Doesn’t matter at what time I come back home, I have to do laundry, prepare meals for kids and help them with homework, and much more.
The pressure of doing this all alone is often more than I can bear. I want to scream: “Where is the man I fell in love with?”
And, an honest confession, I feel so saddened when I am surrounded by our friends, who are still in love. Because, it makes me miss more what we had in the past – love.
I feel I am alone in this marriage.
What is even sadder is the fact that even my parents don’t understand it. Whenever I mention my concerns to my parents, their response is – “Darling, he works very hard, please don’t put pressure on him.” Shattered by their response, I am left heartbroken. Where to go if your own parents don’t understand your loneliness!
I do acknowledge that somewhere it was my mistake that I didn’t gather the courage to talk to you about it rather than seeking help from friends and parents. Our differences and arguments scared me that you won’t understand.
But, I don’t want to be scared anymore.
Because I don’t want to raise my kids in a family, where there is no love. A family where irrespective of how successful a mother is, she will always be treated lesser than the father. And she would be expected to stretch beyond the means to make the marriage work – all alone.
I am sad. for you. For myself. For our kids. For the life that we were meant to have together.
But frankly, I can’t stay like this. So either you have to start working on our marriage otherwise this unbearable agony would make our marriage wipe off.
I always thought I was unbreakable, but continuing to work on our marriage alone will surely break me. Please don’t let that happen. Please let’s just hold our hands together, and make this work.
Yours,
Loving Wife
How do you think husband? I am a husband too, but reading the letter is very touching and it is true that the wife is a woman who must be respected and honored. If she is happy, then the family will flourish with pleasure. Let’s increase the love for the wife as we walk the distance in the household. (source;https://www.iforher.com/)
A Love Letter to My Husband
My love,
Sometimes I just look at you and I feel so lucky to have you, but I don’t say anything. Somehow I think you already know this.
Late at night when you are asleep I just stay there, in our bed, thinking of us and I realize you are the love of my life, the man who made my life complete, the reason I smile every day. Then, in the morning, we are so caught in the daily tasks and I think it’s not the time for sweet words.
Today we were fighting in the car because of a stupid reason and I realized that I tell you everything that bothers me, I take time to reproach you with a lot of small things and I am very strong in my opinions when it comes to an argue, but I don’t tell you how much I love you and I don’t take time to thank you for being supportive and loving each and every day of our life.
So this letter is just to let you know that I LOVE YOU and I feel lucky that you are part of my life. Marriage is sometimes hard, but we went through a lot of things together and our love was always strong. Your love for me was what made me pass over all the difficult times and I will always be grateful for this.
I am glad that you are in my life and even if I don’t show it every day I hope you will always remember how loved you are. Sometimes we take love for granted, but the truth is that love is a precious gift and we should never forget how lucky we are to have it.
Thank you for all the smiles you put on my face, for all the hugs that melt my heart, for all the love I see in your eyes! I hope our love will grow stronger over the years and that we will spend our entire life together, enjoying every moment of it.
You are the reason why I believe in love. The most beautiful reason.
You are the one for me and I am the one for you! Forever.
With love,
Raluca